HERE ARE 8 BIG RELATIONSHIP DOS AND DONTS YOU SHOULD FOLLOWLifestyle May 6, 2016
Practice these eight relationship dos and don’ts to fortify your romance with harmony, stability and joy:
1. DO DEVELOP EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Many couples live together physically but live apart emotionally. Emotional intimacy is knowing what your partner needs before they even get a chance to ask. It is picking up on their feelings as if they were your own.
Develop a sense of emotional intimacy by being honest with your partner and sensitive to their needs.
2. DO PLAN A LIFE TOGETHER
Our plans may not always work out, but envisioning a future with our partner inspires us to take the right steps towards manifesting our long-term goals. Talk about the years ahead and form a strategy to achieve the things you want together: A home, a family, investments, etc.
3. DO BRING THEM COMFORT
Your partner wants to come home to love, not to a headache. Make your home a place that always reels your partner back because they feel safe, stable, and nurtured.
Don’t start talking about your problems as soon as your partner walks through the door. The bills, the job, the argument you just had this morning – these things can wait until the atmosphere is calm and appropriate for such a conversation.
4. DO ACT IN THE RIGHT TIME
Time can be your biggest enemy or your best friend. At any given moment, time is either on your side or against you.
The wisdom is to recognise when you should act, versus when you should wait.
If you listen to your inner voice, you can decipher the different tides of time. Don’t obligate your partner to do things in a certain amount of time, like pushing them to get married within a year. This is your notion of time, not theirs. Do take the big step forward when you’re both in complete agreement, even if it takes a bit longer than you’d like.
5. DON’T PLAY ON THEIR WEAKNESSES
Every day, you have the choice to play on your partner’s weaknesses or to reinforce their strengths. If you constantly bring up what they’re doing wrong, they’ll never feel motivated to do anything right.
No relationship can thrive and improve under such negative energy.
There are gentle ways to get your partner to understand what they should be doing differently, and constantly scolding them is not one of these methods.
6. DON’T GET EVEN
No matter what your partner has done or however they’ve wronged you in the past, don’t retaliate or act in bad faith.
Keep your personal karma clean by always treating the other person the way you’d like to be treated, regardless of the way they behave towards you.
This is your duty to yourself and not to anyone else. Remember: The way others treat you is their karma, but the way you respond is your karma.
7. DON’T ASSUME OR BLOW THINGS OUT OF PROPORTION
Before you throw a tantrum, sit and reflect logically: Is it really as bad as I assume? Speak to your partner openly about what’s bothering you instead of blowing up at them.
Many times we amplify the severity of a situation out of our fears and insecurities, when in reality it’s not what we think at all.
Before assuming things that might be false, ask yourself if it’s really worth jeopardising the relationship.
8. DON’T ACT OUT OF DESPERATION
Think through your decisions a thousand times before you act on them. Acting on desperation will only yield more desperation.
If you’re desperate to get your partner to change, don’t threaten to break up with them when in reality it’s the last thing you want to do. If they agree to break up, you’ll feel even worse.
Let your feelings to settle down before approaching them with any issue. Always try to see the logic behind escalated emotions.
Love relationships are undoubtedly difficult to maintain if we don’t consider the steps to uphold a positive dynamic. Take up these eight tips to eliminate relationship problems and strengthen your loving bond with your partner.
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